most difficult grammar top 3:
1 finnish
2 kantonise
3 swedish
Sounds about right. Dunno about the swedish, though. Maybe you rate it too high? It's still germanic language, so it bears more than just passing resemblance to spanish/english angle. In fact, from Finnish perspective there is very little difference...
I do not wish to insult anyone, especially all the swedes here (it seems I am outnumbered. Sigh.) but did you know that to Finnish ear swedish language sounds gay? Really. I mean homosexual kind of gay, not the original meaning of the word. It's positively disturbing for me to listen swedish language... (shrug)
So, I am curious if any of you swedes here have heard Finnish, if so, how does it sound to your ears? I mean, it's a bit difficult for me to evaluate, isn't it?
journeywoman wrote:
I think English and Mandarin must be up there though. English is difficult enough and I'm a native speaker. Mandarin (my latest challenge) is easy in some ways but the pronounciation and characters

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One thing I can say is Kantonese has an advantage/disadvantage in only being an oral language.
Chinese/Japanese/Ect. are one of the most difficult languages to learn to speak & write for westerners. Mostly because the odd sounds (they call it pronounciation, I call it making funny noises) and the odd characters that bear very little resemblance to western way of doing things.
However, where grammar goes Finnish leads.
NOTE: I am going to quote (loosely) the website I am going to give you a link in a second.
The most hardest part of finnish is the fact that Finnish language has about 14 or 15 noun cases. For example english has essentially about exactly two (nominative and genitive), we also have nice broad set of verb forms. To make it simple, finnish is synthethic language. We use suffixes to express grammatical relations and also to derive new words. To take a
simple example, the single Finnish word (basic form: talo=house)
talossanikin corresponds to the English phrase
in my house, too. The suffix "-ssa" is the ending of the so-called inessive case, corresponding to the English
preposition "in". The suffix "-ni" is a possessive one, corresponding to "my" in English. And the suffix -kin is an enclitic particle corresponding to the English word "too" (and the Latin enclitic -que).
An example of verb flexion is
kirjoitettuasi, which requires an entire sentence when translated into English:
after you had written.
Other problem that the language poses for ENGLISH speaking people; the length of vowels is extremely important and the length of the words can be sometimes rather intimidating, although Finnish doesn't
usually have as long words as German. Unless we want to be difficult. You see, you can combine almost unlimited amount of finnish words together to form a new word. It is commong to combine two or three words in to one, but theoretically you can combine as many as you want (provided you follow certain rules).
Anyway, now an example of the important vowel length:
sataa = it rains
sata = hundred
95% of english speaking people can't tell the difference between those two words when pronounced by a finn but it puts the discussion a whole lot of different perspective to the finnish person.
If you want to know more about finnish language (perhaps you're curious, although it is a long shot) here's a good quick rundown:
http://www2.lysator.liu.se/nordic/scn/finlang.html
And slightly longer and more detailed page (it's still quite brief, though):
http://www.cs.tut.fi/%7Ejkorpela/Finnish.html
As for english... well... I am sad to say, Jorneywoman, that it is riduclously simple language to learn. Even though your grammar is positively alien to me (as a finn) and the lack of proper "forms" for the words makes me feel like I am talking in the eloquent "Me Tarzan, you Jane, me is big king!" style. Even though it IS the way that this damn language is supposed to be formed. Well.. mostly, my english still sucks

. Not to mention the occassional mixup of english/australian/american spelling.
However, do not despair...

English is frustrating language learn to pronounce. Why?
Because the language has been in written form so long that there seems to be virtually NO RULES AT ALL when it comes how to pronounce the damn words (not to mention that english language holds the record for most words in a language). It's like at some words you have to ingnore certain letters, at others they should be accented, and in some the letters are pronounced in a way that's completely against any logic.
So, obviously, I have a heavy accent. Heh
Ah well, I shall stop babbling. Hopefully you don't get all angry for me to posting such a huge post. I tend to get a tad (cough) longwinded (cough) when I get interested about something.